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		<title>Happy Belated Birthday Dr. Seuss!!!</title>
		<link>http://deardaycareparent.com/2011/03/11/happy-belated-birthday-dr-seuss/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Mar 2011 18:28:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jackie &#38; Jo-Jo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oops!  We forgot to acknowledge the birthday of  the most awesome author of  children&#8217;s books. It&#8217;s none other than the late Dr. Seuss. His birthday was March 2nd and so many classrooms across the country were celebrating his day by reading books and serving green eggs and ham! You just can&#8217;t miss when reading one of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oops!  We forgot to acknowledge the birthday of  the most awesome author of  children&#8217;s books. It&#8217;s none other than the late Dr. Seuss. His birthday was March 2nd and so many classrooms across the country were celebrating his day by reading books and serving green eggs and ham! You just can&#8217;t miss when reading one of his stories to a group of young children. It&#8217;s magical.</p>
<p>In his honor, we would like to share a few of  his inspiring quotes with you:</p>
<p>&#8220;You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer in any direction you choose.You&#8217;re on your own. And you know what you know. You are the guy who&#8217;ll decide where to go.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Don&#8217;t cry because it&#8217;s over. Smile because it happened.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don&#8217;t matter and those who matter don&#8217;t mind.&#8221;</p>
<p>Thank you Dr. Seuss for bringing smiles to the faces of both young and old all around the world!</p>
<p>Have a zooper zizzy zazzy day all! :&gt;)</p>
<p>~ <em>Jackie &amp; Jo-Jo</em></p>
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		<title>Promotional Video</title>
		<link>http://deardaycareparent.com/2010/04/28/promotional-video/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Apr 2010 19:22:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jackie &#38; Jo-Jo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi All! We  now have a promotional video for our book, Dear Daycare Parent. You are welcome to view it at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MGCK9q8RevE . Please be sure to leave any comments you may have, it would be appreciated!.  We continue to be passionate about our book and feel it would be a wonderful resource for parents [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi All!</p>
<p>We  now have a promotional video for our book, <strong><em>Dear Daycare Parent. </em></strong>You are welcome to view it at <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MGCK9q8RevE">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MGCK9q8RevE</a> . Please be sure to leave any comments you may have, it would be appreciated!.  We continue to be passionate about our book and feel it would be a wonderful resource for parents involved in the world of daycare. Our hope is that this video will catch the attention of a publisher who can appreciate the value of this subject.</p>
<p>We&#8217;d also like to send out a big &#8221; THANK YOU &#8221; to the producer of this video, Mike Lombardi of  Big L Pictures, along with the actresses . You all did a great job!</p>
<p>~ <em>Jackie &amp;  Jo- Jo</em></p>
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		<title>Cancel the Guilt Trip</title>
		<link>http://deardaycareparent.com/2009/12/13/cancel-the-guilt-trip/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Dec 2009 22:27:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jackie &#38; Jo-Jo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s not unusual to hear a parent express their guilt over placing their child in daycare. As a result, they will honestly admit that they don&#8217;t discipline, set limits, and tend to overindulge their children with material things. In response to this, we would like to bring attention to an informative show Dr. Phil had [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s not unusual to hear a parent express their guilt over placing their child in daycare. As a result, they will honestly admit that they don&#8217;t discipline, set limits, and tend to overindulge their children with material things.</p>
<p>In response to this, we would like to bring attention to an informative show Dr. Phil had recently. It was titled <a title="Dr. Phil Show" href="http://drphil.com/shows/show/1328/" target="_blank">Generation Me</a>. It was given this title to represent some of the young people today, because as a group, experts say, they are self absorbed, spoiled, and impatient and feel entitled to have everything without working for it. Dr. Phil said, &#8220;Someone once said to me the older generation talks about the younger generation as though they had nothing to do with it.&#8221;</p>
<p>He explains, these children were not born like this, it&#8217;s been cultivated in them from an early age. He said it happens because parents feel guilty because they have to work, they haven&#8217;t spent enough time with their children, or they feel their child has it too hard. Consequently, to help the parent feel better in the moment they give in to their child&#8217;s every need and want. By doing this, Dr. Phil explains, as a society we are crippling our children. We are taking away their inner drive and discipline and leaving them with the feeling that everything will be given to them.</p>
<p>Author <a title="Generation Me" href="http://www.generationme.org/" target="_blank">Jean Twenge </a>who wrote the book  Generation Me was a guest on the show. She said it best in her book when she wrote, &#8220;Your kids are special to you, but they need to learn that they have to earn being special in the world by their performance and holding themselves accountable.&#8221;</p>
<p>Whether you agree or not, a thought provoking show, don&#8217;t you think? And keep in mind, a quality daycare will be setting limits and discipline. Without this, it would be total chaos in the building.</p>
<p>~ <em>Jackie &amp; Jo-Jo</em></p>
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		<title>Just Playing Poem</title>
		<link>http://deardaycareparent.com/2009/10/25/just-playing-poem/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 22:53:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jackie &#38; Jo-Jo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A woman was complaining one day that when she arrived to pick up her four year old, she was &#8220;just dancing.&#8221; We think that the following poem by Anita Wadley is the perfect response to this statement. This is a favorite among teachers of young children for sure! Thank you Anita! JUST PLAYING When I&#8217;m [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A woman was complaining one day that when she arrived to pick up her four year old, she was &#8220;just dancing.&#8221; We think that the following poem by <a title="Anita Wadley" href="http://www.anitawadley.com/Site/Welcome.html" target="_blank">Anita Wadley </a>is the perfect response to this statement. This is a favorite among teachers of young children for sure! Thank you Anita!</p>
<p style="text-align: center">JUST PLAYING</p>
<p style="text-align: center">When I&#8217;m building in the block room, please don&#8217;t say I&#8217;m &#8220;Just Playing.&#8221;<br />
For you see, I&#8217;m learning as I play about balances and shapes.<br />
Who knows, I may be an architect some day.</p>
<p style="text-align: center">When I&#8217;m getting all dressed up; setting the table, caring for the babies,<br />
Don&#8217;t get the idea I&#8217;m &#8220;Just Playing.&#8221;<br />
For, you see, I&#8217;m learning as I play;<br />
I may be a mother or father some day.</p>
<p style="text-align: center">When you see me sitting in a chair, reading to an imaginary audience.<br />
Please don&#8217;t laugh and think I&#8217;m &#8220;Just Playing.&#8221;<br />
For, you see, I&#8217;m learning as I play;<br />
I may be a teacher someday.</p>
<p style="text-align: center">When you see me combing the bushes for bugs,<br />
Or packing my pockets with choice things I find; don&#8217;t pass it off as &#8220;Just Play.&#8221;<br />
For, you see, I&#8217;m learning as I play:<br />
I may be a scientist someday.</p>
<p style="text-align: center">When you see me engrossed in a puzzle or some &#8220;plaything&#8221; at my school,<br />
Please don&#8217;t feel the time is wasted.<br />
For, you see, I&#8217;m learning as I play. I&#8217;m learning to solve problems and concentrate.<br />
I may be in business some day.</p>
<p style="text-align: center">When you see me cooking or tasting foods,<br />
Please don&#8217;t think that because I enjoy it, it is &#8220;Just Play.&#8221;<br />
I&#8217;m learning to follow directions and see differences.<br />
I may be a cook someday.</p>
<p style="text-align: center">When you see me learning to skip, hop, run and move my body;<br />
Please don&#8217;t say I&#8217;m &#8220;Just Playing.&#8221;<br />
For, you see, I&#8217;m learning as I play; I&#8217;m learning how my body works.<br />
I may be a doctor, nurse or athlete someday.</p>
<p style="text-align: center">When you asked me, what I&#8217;ve done at school today,<br />
And I say &#8220;I just played&#8221;; please don&#8217;t misunderstand me.<br />
For, you see, I&#8217;m learning as I play.<br />
I&#8217;m learning to enjoy and be successful in my work;<br />
I&#8217;m preparing for tomorrow.<br />
Today, I am a child and my work is play.</p>
<p style="text-align: center"> </p>
<p style="text-align: left">Hope you enjoyed the poem, and for you adults too&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..take some time to &#8220;Just Play&#8221; today!</p>
<p style="text-align: left">~ <em>Jackie &amp;  Jo-Jo</em></p>
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		<title>The Village Has Changed</title>
		<link>http://deardaycareparent.com/2009/10/18/the-village-has-changed/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 22:45:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jackie &#38; Jo-Jo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[On a recent episode of  Dr. Phil, there was a discussion on stay at home moms vs working moms. The point coming out of this whole show was that you have to do what is right for you and your family, everyone has their own unique set of circumstances. Basically, there is no right or [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On a recent episode of  Dr. Phil, there was a <a title="Guilty Moms?" href="http://www.drphil.com/shows/show/1327" target="_blank">discussion </a>on stay at home moms vs working moms. The point coming out of this whole show was that you have to do what is right for you and your family, everyone has their own unique set of circumstances. Basically, there is no right or wrong and people on both sides of the issue should feel good about what they&#8217;re doing.</p>
<p>The old saying &#8220;it takes a village to raise a child&#8221; has taken on a new meaning these days. The &#8220;village&#8221; has now expanded to include daycare providers, babysitters, and nannies. Families are not in close proximity like they used to be and people don&#8217;t know their neighbors as well.</p>
<p>We have written the book <a title="Book Details" href="http://deardaycareparent.com/about-our-book/" target="_blank">Dear Daycare Parent </a>to help those parents who have decided to go the daycare route be more informed and hopefully feel more comfortable with their choice. It&#8217;s our hope to find a publisher soon so we can share our many years of experience with you!</p>
<p>~ <em>Jackie &amp; Jo-Jo</em></p>
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		<title>Let&#8217;s put the PRE back in Preschool!</title>
		<link>http://deardaycareparent.com/2009/08/30/lets-put-the-pre-back-in-preschool/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Aug 2009 18:52:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jackie &#38; Jo-Jo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There was a disturbing article on MSNBC called Tutoring Tots? Kids Prep for Kindergarten. Why on earth are four and five year olds being tutored? Preschool should be setting them up for the academic learning that should begin in kindergarten. Preschool is a time for nurturing personal, social, and emotional development as well as communication, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There was a disturbing article on MSNBC called <a title="Tutoring Tots" href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/32404017/ns/health-kids_and_parenting/" target="_blank">Tutoring Tots? Kids Prep for Kindergarten</a>. Why on earth are four and five year olds being tutored? Preschool should be setting them up for the academic learning that should begin in kindergarten. Preschool is a time for nurturing personal, social, and emotional development as well as communication, creative, and physical skills.  Allowing children to dsicover and freely explore within these areas is the foundation for developmental learning. It is sad that kindergarten classrooms are more structured strictly for academics with materials such as blocks, water tables, and dramatic play areas  slowly disappearing. Even preschoolers as young as two are being evaluated for what they can and cannot do!</p>
<p>Why are children being hurried along so? An excellent book on this subject is called the Hurried Child by <a title="David Elkind" href="http://ase.tufts.edu/faculty-guide/fac/delkind.childdev.htm" target="_blank">David Elkind</a>. It gives a good review of child development and discusses how children are now being hurried along by parents, schools and the media. As the parent you need to make an informed decision when picking a preschool facility. Is it based on a nurturing approach with developmentally appropriate activities or are they stressing academics?  Which is right for your child?</p>
<p>You have to decide for yourself, but we ask&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;what&#8217;s the hurry?</p>
<p>- <em>Jackie &amp; Jo-Jo</em></p>
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		<title>Get Out!</title>
		<link>http://deardaycareparent.com/2009/08/16/get-out/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Aug 2009 17:33:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jackie &#38; Jo-Jo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Turns out our parents demands of &#8220;get out and play!&#8221; were not only wise, but good for us too! In an article in the Washington Post, it talks about how millions of children are lacking Vitamin D which causes an increase in health risks such as heart disease, diabetes and bone problems. This isn&#8217;t surprising considering [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Turns out our parents demands of &#8220;get out and play!&#8221; were not only wise, but good for us too!</p>
<p>In an <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/08/02/AR2009080202114.html" target="_blank">article</a> in the Washington Post, it talks about how millions of children are lacking Vitamin D which causes an increase in health risks such as heart disease, diabetes and bone problems. This isn&#8217;t surprising considering sun exposure is the best source of this vitamin. Children are increasingly engaged in indoor activities and can be found in front of  t.v. and computer screens. And let&#8217;s not forget the popularity of the Wii!  Then there are the companies making a fortune off of sunscreen who have us all believing that if we don&#8217;t slather that lotion on constantly we&#8217;ll end up with skin cancer!  Note, of course you should protect your child against<em> <strong>prolonged</strong></em> time in the sun.</p>
<p>The whole point is, if you have a child enrolled in daycare, outside time<em> <strong> should</strong>  </em>be part of the daily program. Outside time, it does a body good!</p>
<p>- <em>Jackie &amp; Jo-Jo</em></p>
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		<title>Food For Thought</title>
		<link>http://deardaycareparent.com/2009/08/02/food-for-thought/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Aug 2009 23:32:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jackie &#38; Jo-Jo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Much attention has been directed at the story of Alexander Draper, the 14 year old weighing in at 555 pounds (see the article). Because of this, his mom is being investigated on claims of child neglect. This brings up the point - should obesity be considered a form of child abuse? It&#8217;s up for debate. Unfortunately, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Much attention has been directed at the story of Alexander Draper, the 14 year old weighing in at 555 pounds (<a title="Alexander Draper Article" href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/30877017/" target="_blank">see the article</a>). Because of this, his mom is being investigated on claims of child neglect. This brings up the point - should obesity be considered a form of child abuse? It&#8217;s up for debate.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, some parents tend to just &#8220;give up&#8221; when it comes to nutrition. Before a child even tries something it is<em> assumed  </em>that he or she won&#8217;t like it because it&#8217;s healthy! While it&#8217;s common for children to be fussy, new foods need to be introduced.  A nutritionist at a children&#8217;s hospital stated the importance of presenting foods over and over even if the child did not initially care for it. They may eventually try it again and it could become a favorite.</p>
<p>It is a fact that children will eat what is visually appealing. On a recent episode of <a href="http://www.theview.tv/blog/getting-your-kids-eat" target="_blank">The View </a>a woman named Susie Cover was sharing recipes for healthy and appealing meals for children. You can check out her website at <a title="Susie Cover" href="http://www.susiessupperclub.com" target="_blank">www.susiessupperclub.com</a></p>
<p>So the next time your ready to head out for the fast food, why not try something new? The cookbook called <strong>Deceptively Delicious</strong> is full of great recipes children love. Go to <a href="http://www.deceptivelydelicious.com" target="_blank">www.deceptivelydelicious.com</a> for more information. It may even improve your eating habits too!</p>
<p>- <em>Jackie &amp; Jo-Jo</em></p>
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		<title>Have You Seen My Childhood?</title>
		<link>http://deardaycareparent.com/2009/07/05/have-you-seen-my-childhood/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 00:45:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jackie &#38; Jo-Jo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of our readers asked if we would comment on Michael Jackson. So here goes&#8230;. Since Michael&#8217;s tragic and unexpected death, there is so much speculation about his life. One can&#8217;t help but wonder if  he would have had more peace and contentment had he been allowed more free time and play as a child. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of our readers asked if we would comment on Michael Jackson. So here goes&#8230;.</p>
<p>Since Michael&#8217;s tragic and unexpected death, there is so much speculation about his life. One can&#8217;t help but wonder if  he would have had more peace and contentment had he been allowed more free time and play as a child.  He so quickly became the &#8220;property&#8221; of the public and golden boy of his family at such an incredibly young age.</p>
<p>Please never underestimate the importance of free play and expression in a child&#8217;s development. It is an essential step toward discovering the world and who they are. Michael, sadly, seemed to have missed this step.</p>
<p>We&#8217;ll end with a lyric from his song<em> HAVE YOU SEEN MY CHILDHOOD:</em></p>
<p><em>&#8220;</em>It&#8217;s been my fate to compensate for the childhood I&#8217;ve never known.&#8221;</p>
<p><em>- Jackie &amp; Jo-Jo</em></p>
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